Choosing to wear a tuxedo to a wedding is a huge decision for everyone involved—brides, members of the wedding party, and guests. Tuxedos are the pinnacle of men’s formal attire, reserved for the most formal of events. If you’re wondering if you may wear a traditional necktie instead of a bow tie with your tux, you’re in luck because we have the answers!
Prior to discussing whether or not a tie goes with a tuxedo, it’s critical to have a basic understanding of this style of attire. Like suits, Tuxedos, including Men’s blue Tuxedos, are regarded as a form of formal attire; however, since tuxedos are typically made of a different material and cut than suits, you would normally wear a suit for a different kind of event. According to Jeanne Foley, co-founder of Men’s Tuxedo USA, “the satin accents on a tuxedo are the largest distinction between a suit and a tux.” Satin lapels, satin-covered buttons, a satin waistline on the pants, and a satin stripe down the side of the leg are all common features of tuxedos, while some designers choose not to include that aspect based on personal choice. Despite being formal, suits give off a considerably more laid-back vibe than tuxedos.”
A bow tie is often the ideal finishing touch for a tuxedo, although a normal necktie is always suitable with suits. That raises the question of whether a bow tie is always required or if a tie can ever be worn with a tuxedo. Here, we provide you with all the answers, assisted by Foley, Diana Ganz, co-founder of Men’s Tuxedo USA, Alyssa DiMarcantonio, head designer at Damari, and Vyanca Scott, style adviser.
Is a Tie Appropriate for a Tuxedo?
The bow tie, which is customarily worn with a tuxedo, is one of the main obstacles people encounter while choosing whether or not to wear one of these outfits. While some think the style is fantastic, others think it’s stuffy. Although bow ties and tuxedos were formerly required, fashion experts concur that this combination is no longer as definitive. According to Foley, “we’re seeing clients go from the classic bow tie to a skinny necktie more recently. Those who wish to achieve the formality of a tuxedo while maintaining a less conventional style are likely to choose a slender black or ivory/white tie as their accessory of choice. Can a regular necktie be worn with a tuxedo, then? Without a doubt, the answer is yes.”
Although it may seem a bit strange to forego the classic bow tie, Diana Ganz, co-founder of Men’s Tuxedo USA, guarantees that this choice still complies with the black-tie dress code. “There are no set “rules” about when a tuxedo is suitable to wear with a necktie. You really have to trust your instincts, she says, depending on the event you’re attending and how comfortable you are with trends. “If you enjoy the way a tie looks and feels, don’t hesitate to wear it if the event calls for black tie but you will largely be with friends and family and you feel like mixing it up a bit.”
When Not to Match a Tuxedo with a Necktie
While it’s obvious that a regular tie goes well with a tuxedo, there are a few occasions when a bow tie is preferable to a necktie. It would be a serious mistake to disregard the dress code if you are a member of a wedding party or other organization where wearing a bow tie is essential. “This is usually indicated if you are a groomsman or a member of a group that has to wear a uniform or anything consistent,” notes Foley. “Otherwise, the necktie may be substituted for the bow tie at any moment and is entirely appropriate as a black tie option.”
In addition, if you’re not sure how formal the setting will be, you might want to forgo wearing a tie. According to Foley, “you can never go wrong with the traditional bow tie if you are attending an event where you are unsure of the guest list and are not as confident about taking fashion chances.” The best option if you want to blend in is to wear a bow tie, as most attendees will probably be sporting one.
How to Wear a Tuxedo with a Standard Tie
If you intend to wear a normal tie with your tuxedo, you should always consider your options carefully before pulling one out of your closet. The ideal necktie for a tuxedo is slender (not skinny) satin or grosgrain silk, according to Damari head designer Alyssa DiMarcantonio. She also says that the lapels of the tuxedo should match the tie. “Usually, it implies a black silk tie, but go with a navy tie if your lapels are navy,” she continues.
It would be advisable to stick to a basic look and leave your bright colors, tiny stripes, and designs at home. “For a timeless appearance you won’t regret for years to come, our advice is to keep the tie neutral and opt with black or ivory/white,” says Foley. If you’re a true fashionista, your tie knot should complement your whole appearance. Ganz states that although there are many knot varieties to pick from, learning how to tie a Windsor or half-Windsor knot is the most straightforward option for those who don’t wear ties frequently. DiMarcantonio, however, strongly advises using a bow tie if your tuxedo shirt has a wing-tip collar, pleats, studs or even a cummerbund—otherwise, the tuxedo will seem out of proportion. Finally, if you want to wear a conventional necktie, choose a tuxedo shirt with a fly front, no placket, or a classic placket.
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Other Tuxedo Styling Choices
According to DiMarcantonio, “the tuxedo and its principles have developed throughout time.” There are many of ways to add flair to the traditional tuxedo while still staying within the black-tie dress code, so there’s no shortage of alternatives to choose from. Another stylish approach to break away from the conventional tie or bow tie is with an ascot, for instance. Ganz adds that an ascot is simply a fancy term for a neck scarf and may be worn both officially and casually. “Ascot is a highly specific appearance that might be interesting to try out when you want to stand out at a huge party or special occasion.”
That being said, wear a tie or bow tie if you’re attending a more formal event or wedding and don’t want to take any chances with your outfit. You may still update your appearance by choosing a dark-colored tuxedo, such as emerald or blue, switching out your patent leather shoes for matte black ones, and using a tie pin in place of a bar. “Ask the event host and inquire about the location and number of guests attending the party when in doubt,” advises Foley. “That will assist you in deciding how imaginative you wish to be with your clothing.”
In the end, you want to wear clothing that fits well, makes you feel good, and is comfortable. According to Vyanca Scott, style adviser, “style is in the eye of the beholder, and like many fashion ‘rules’ down the years, they are frequently created to be broken.” You may feel comfortable with your choice of formal attire as long as you adhere to the dress code, regardless of whether you want to wear a bow tie or a tie with your tuxedo.
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